Mind & Emotions

Feelings of melancholy and sad reflection may overtake you and you may feel like isolating yourself and avoiding contact. This is an important part of the grieving process and one that well meaning people may try to talk you out of or jolly you around.

Anger can be a frustrating emotion to work out. Sometimes it is obvious who you are angry with and other times the identification of the source of it can be elusive.

In the last two weeks we have seen on our television screens many people succeed at the London Olympics and we have a better appreciation of how they have achieved their successes, medal winners or not.

After the initial shock starts wearing off and the numb feeling that protects us after a trauma starts to melt away, we are left with the second stage of grief - Pain and Guilt.

Recently I have been thinking about the theory of projection, developed by Freud. I liken it to a movie projector. As the projectionist you are sitting in a little box at the back of the cinema. The film is projected from here some metres away on to other

Many people will experience these emotions and feelings as they work through the aftermath of a death in their circle whether it is a family member, friend or pet.

Heartfelt thanks to all of you who have sent me messages regarding my first article for GrownUps. I'm replying to two of your letters this time.

Talking about grief is not a subject many people feel comfortable with.

"To raise new questions, new possibilities, to regard old problems from a new angle, requires creative imagination and marks real advance in science." Albert Einstein

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