Swinging began in 50’s in America and it is not a sex technique but a lifestyle. Today swinging has spread far and wide and is most popular in the western world including Australia and New Zealand.
In countries with closed cultures where tradition and orthodoxy is deep rooted swinging is practically unheard of. But in countries or rather societies which have experienced sexual liberation and freed themselves of traditional mores and dogmas, swinging has taken deep roots. Although it is not widespread to that extent were swinging is expected as a social norm. The reason is swinging is not for all.
It is only for those couples who are willing to share their partners or sexuality in agreement with each other and in full knowledge of each other. Since the bondage among swinging couples is nowhere broken or weak on the contrary the marital bonds are very strong to permit sex with others in full faith and trust. Swinging is definitely not advised for couples who have a disturbed marriage, the sexual relationship between the two is weak or a disputed affair has weakened the trust between either party. The marriage can rock further if jealousy sets in for a great degree of maturity and understanding is required for swinging. Hence swinging is for mature couples.
Stronger maruatl bonds?
As most swingers have expressed that their marital bonds have become stronger after they entered the world of adult swingers. The reason is that couples may not find full sexual satisfaction or may not be able to experience their sexuality to the fullest in a monogamous relationship. Swinging allows couples to experience their sexuality to the fullest with the involvement of different sex partners with which they have accepted to enjoy sex. The sex combinations may be threesome, foursome or group sex according to the preference of the swingers. Partner exchange or wife swapping can be for sex in same room or in different rooms. Many such factors apply in swinging.
Swinging is not wild sex
There are rules and etiquette strictly adhered to by swingers. First of all there is no cheating involved as the couples indulge in swinging with the acceptance of each other and in full knowledge of each other. Swinging just does not take place between any swingers rather the partners are carefully chosen in likeness of both husband and wife. The sexual preference and limitations are strictly maintained as per the swingers desires and no violation of privacy of any kind is tolerated.
How to join?
The best way that couple can enter swinging is to join a swingers club that entertains newbie or amateur swingers although one can enter straight way through personals ads in swingers personals of a dating sites or in a swingers party. But swingers club are sticklers for rules and etiquette and hence bring more comfort for the nervous couple who is experiencing swinging for the first time.
Follow the norms and advice and you will enjoy swinging – just be sure whether you wish for this lifestyle or it can be embarrassing or even heart breaking for you and your wife.
Last but not the least please practice safe sex – use a condom always.
Tina Carter - 6 years ago
There are many swingers who tells their story. But, the truth is that everyone has their own experience, their own feelings, their own stories. It doesn’t mean it’s the same for everyone. For example, we are meeting only people from swinginglove.club. We are chatting with them for days/weeks, we want to know the couple pretty well. We are not running into a club and have intercourse with anyone. We want to be sure that the couple is what we are searching for. I think that it’s a pretty important thing.