The Many Benefits of Knitting Circles

I was reading Stephen Covey’s, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, and was struck by something very powerful. He said our growing fear and insecurity about work, finances, the future, and the vulnerability that comes with this fear is really paralysing our society. Our response to fear is to focus inward – to focus on our own performance and our own concerns with the hope we will be ok. This was a really scary thought for me, as I see more and more of it in myself and others. Can you imagine what happens to society if we all become hermits?

It is essential to depend on others to succeed to the fullest. It is only with the assistance of others we can become the whole person we could be. It is through others we develop all aspects of our personality. Our dealings with other people shape our personality and develop our interpersonal skills. No one ever achieved anything great by themselves, and if we continue to hide behind the “I’ll take care of just me” facade, we’ll never achieve anything great either.

So what does this have to do with knitting circles? Knitting circles have, for centuries, brought women together to share their experiences, to ask advice, and to encourage one another. It’s a fun environment and a learning environment all at the same time. It provides a place where women can go to find community. Most importantly, it is a place where community does not stand in judgment.

This kind of community is possibly a large part of what is missing in our society today. By “nesting” and staying home, we have abandoned community. Nesting is a phenomena punctuated by the growing number of telecommuters, work at homers, and internet chat. We’re avoiding people and choosing to stay at home where we feel safe. The internet brings us chat rooms, but we can’t hold a conversation in person. Nesting is keeping us from achieving all we can achieve. So, enter knitting circles! Knitting circles are a way to connect with the people who can help you achieve something great.

You get out of your house to have a knitting circle (or at least invite people over to your house). You will be able to share the common interest of knitting with people who bring varied experiences. You will have the chance to talk to people and share in their wisdom.

You may not solve the great mysteries of the world, and your achievements may never be chronicled in encyclopaedias for generations to revere, but imagine the pride of knowing you’ve changed one person for the better. Imagine knowing what you had to offer was exactly what someone needed to make a dramatic change for the better. Wow! You might raise a child, coach a business owner, write a book, offer your expertise to assist another, or even just listen and ask understanding questions. When was the last time someone truly listened to what you said? See what I mean?

This is the value of community, and the value of knitting circles. Knitting circles bring women together in an environment where it is comfortable to share and ask questions. It is safe to learn something new. It appeals to women of all walks of life and all generations. Find a circle near you, or start one of your own using the GrownUps Discussion Forums.  You’ll be creating a life-changing group that will encourage each to become more than they already are.