Gossip can actually be good for you

But you have to do it the right way.

Gossip is a part of life whether we like it or not. You may be surprised to hear that gossip isn’t all that bad though, if done right! If you like ‘sharing news,’ here are some great tips to know about:

How to Gossip Correctly

1. Keep It Secret – keep your gossip within your social group. This helps prevent it damaging others, even though you didn’t mean it to hurt them. This would include details about families, relationships or money.
2. Be Respectful – keep your eye on the bigger picture. Think about other people and how they would feel, or how you would feel if people were gossiping about you. Gossip can be embarrassing or humiliating, so being respectful should be a high priority for you.
3. Make It Useful – before you share information about someone, think if it could benefit them in any way. If it can, then chances are you can talk about it. If it won’t, then it’s best kept to yourself.
4. Do Not Tell Lies – making up or spreading lies about someone is unacceptable. Known as defamation, it can have serious consequences for you, including criminal charges. If you have heard something from someone else and there’s a chance it is untrue, don’t share it.
5. Connect with Your Listener – take the time to learn more about the people you are talking with. Their hobbies, family and work can help you select the right type of information to share with them. Pointers about the best supermarket, where not to buy shoes or what kind of clothing is best worn to the rugby match are all helpful and may be appreciated by your listener.

While it’s true that gossip has got a bad reputation, it doesn’t always have to be that way. Yes, there is good gossip and bad gossip, but what really counts is the way you do it. By following our five tips above, you can share information which helps, not hinders others! Go forth and share!