My husband doesn’t want to have sex

Are you thinking my husband doesn’t want to have sex, and wondering why that is? Well, are you’re certainly not alone. This actually happens quite often. Many wives go through this. But one of the huge mistakes that a lot will make is automatically assuming that their husband is out fooling around. Making this assumption without really knowing for sure can do nothing but cause more problems, possibly even ruining the marriage entirely.

The thing is any number of reasons that your husband doesn’t want sex. Of course, the common belief is that a man will have sex at the drop of a dime, and for the most part that’s pretty true. But there are certainly things that can get in the way of that, and in a marriage there are certainly plenty of instances where these situations can arise.

Here are 3 Reasons Why Your Husband May Not Want to Have Sex…

Reason #1: Physical…

Your husband may be having a little trouble down there and is embarrassed to mention it or talk about to either you or his doctor. Listen, we’re guys, and that’s our thing. We don’t want to admit that our equipment isn’t working properly, so we avoid the situation.

It’s even embarrassing with your wife believe it or not. And even if you feel like you guys tell each other everything, some things we just don’t like to talk about or admit and that’s one of them.

Reason #2: Something Is Bothering Him on an Emotional Level…

This can be any number of things. It could be something outside of the marriage like overall stress, but it could also very well be something within the marriage.

Here’s the thing, there’s likely some other issues going on in your marriage if this is happening and it’s not physical. You have to dig in a bit, and figure out what that might be. It may not be that hard to figure out, especially if you guys are arguing every day, or whatever. Usually, marriage problems will be the main culprit if it’s not a physical problem. If you’re in a position where you’re saying my husband doesn’t want to have sex with me, then there’s a good chance that your husband has something bothering him.

You can try to talk it over with him, but the chances are that it’s not going to go over well. But you SHOULD start doing some soul searching and figuring out what’s wrong in your marriage, and how can this be fixed, and take steps to fix them, even if you’re doing this on your own. There are some (very few however) great guides to fixing a marriage even if you have to do it on your own.

Reason #3: You are Missing the Key Ingredient of Marriage…

Ok, so you’re used to hearing and thinking that only a woman needs PASSION in their marriage to be able to make love right?

Well, nothing could be further than the truth. You can think of Passion in your marriage as the same thing that connected you and your husband in the first place. It’s that excitement that you feel when you’re all fluttery after the first date. But what happens after marriage is that life gets in the way, and suddenly the passion is gone, and here you are wondering why my husband doesn’t want to have sex.

So it’s time to reignite that passion. And as mundane and boring as it may sound at this point you have to plan out time for passion and excitement. Date nights are a good start. Lunch time quickies etc. You know the drill.

But if there are underlying marriage troubles, then passion might be a bit tougher to come by than just having a date night. There may be some issues to work through.

By Jason Nelson