Dr Dorree believes that relationships, sexuality and spirituality have no expiration date. “However, my life, like everyone, continually changes. I keep on taking on projects because they make me feel alive,” she says. “But it doesn’t stop me wondering about things. Here’s what I think about sometimes – maybe you do too – discuss it with your friends and see what comes of it There's nothing wrong with aging: it’s the hassles that go with it that are the challenge!
Here’s a list of some of the hassles that make doing what I do at this age complex:
• Maintenance: The time it takes to floss.
• Exercise: I don’t love going, but after Pilates and Yoga, I always feel better.
• Keep up with family, friends, social life.
• Doctor’s appointments. I’m grateful for health. Still, keeping mind, body, spirit running smoothly takes soooo much time.
• Exhaustion. No one ever told me I would need naps or how tired I could get.
• Memory lapses. Yes, they are real.
• Necessary losses and grieving. Someone I care about is always getting ill or dying.
• Wondering: When will it be me?
• Like a rusty car, everything takes longer.
• Kids and family: There’s always at least one out of sync.
• Time for laughter, love and joy.
• Sex, intimacy, a needed day in bed
• Time to vacation, travel, relax and read.
• Money: Too little/too much. How to best plan.
• All of the above all over again.