If you or your loved ones don’t feel comfortable having the conversation, you can still leave a legacy. Use a notebook to jot down ideas and preferences, and let your next-of-kin know where to find it.
So, what sorts of things should you cover?
Religious, secular or something a little different?
One of the biggest issues loved ones face is whether to hold a religious funeral, a secular funeral, or something in-between. Make things easy on your family by clarifying what you want in advance, and helping them plan a funeral that you’ll love.
Ashes to ashes
Following on from your funeral style is the question of whether you’d like to be buried or cremated. Over the past few years there’s also been a rise in alternative funeral styles, like eco-friendly burials. So many people haven’t expressed a particular desire or sidestep the conversation, which leaves loved ones wondering if they made the right decision.
Hitting play
Now comes the fun part… Everyone loves a good tune, and there’s no reason why your funeral shouldn’t reflect the music you love. Religious, classical, vintage or modern? It’s entirely up to you. There’s a fabulous scene in Love Actually when Daniel blasts the Bay City Rollers as he farewells his beloved wife. Accompanied by a slideshow, it’s a perfect example of how funerals can be touching and upbeat at the same time.
Location, location, location
Have you always wanted to be buried in your hometown? Maybe you’ve imagined your service by the waterfront, or want to have your ashes scattered at your favourite beach. Location plays an all-important role in funerals, and you can help your loved ones plan the perfect send-off by mentioning your preferred locations in advance.
The after party
For some people, funerals are all about tradition. But there’s no reason you have to conform. Maybe you’d like to be sent off with cocktails and canapes, or perhaps you’re more of an ‘open bar’ party person?
Support your loved ones with funeral insurance
This is where funeral insurance comes in. Like a wedding planner, Cigna policies give you the freedom and financial security to focus on making your grand entrance (or in this case departure) in style. You can take out a funeral cover policy for amounts ranging from $5,000 to $30,000, which will give you total peace of mind. It’s simple to apply for and easy to claim, with funds paid out within 48 hours of submitting claim forms.