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What Women Appreciate

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Listen up fellas. Women aren’t that complicated or hard to understand. There are a few things that we will always appreciate, and they don’t cost a thing. 

Mean what you say 

Women know when you aren’t interested or being truthful. Your words won’t match your actions and it will cause problems with trust or communication. If you like a lady, say so. If not, move on. It’s better to be truthful. And, as is important in all facets of life – if you say you’re going to do something, do it. Simple. 

Listen to what we say 

Women love a vulnerable guy, and they like it when men share their thoughts and concerns. That pendulum swings both ways. Remember women like to talk things out, that does not necessarily mean you have to fix anything. 

Hold our hand 

Just to be clear, this doesn’t count as foreplay. We are all modern women, but there’s nothing sexier than being with a guy who makes us feel safe and protected. A small gesture can go a long, long way.

Be thoughtful

Women spend a lot of time arranging details for family, work and friends. It is truly wonderful to have someone make all the plans and decisions sometimes. A great date doesn’t have to cost a lost of money. Creativity counts.

Be patient

Women love sex just as much as you do. Great things take time. be romantic. Be sweet. Flirt. Tease. But do it well. Remember, better things come to those who wait.