So a weep may be a way a child is processing their grief, their anger, and their frustration. It resets them emotionally and is a self-comforting tool. Maybe we don’t need to do much more than just be sympathetic. Get down to their level, listen to their frustration with your heart and let them know that you care.
You might not be to do anything to relieve their frustration but you do care. Also, you can sympathise without actually agreeing with their opinion on what’s causing the frustration. “I can see you’re upset. This is tough, eh? I know you want an ice block – but not today, honey.”
Building these boundaries are so good for children to learn and develop we don’t need to cave into their frustration tears. Stay strong and give support if necessary.
By John Cowan, The Parenting Place
Improving and equipping families to thrive.
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